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The Murder that no one knows.

by Liv | Published on January 4th, 2009, 8:56 am | Life
What I'm about to write has been on my chest for sometime. It's speculative, I suppose at best but none the less something tells me I need to write it. I apologize if anyone whom knows me or Shan is upset by this... but it's truly how I feel, and I've waited a long time to say it.

You may remember sometime back I mentioned a friend of the family had died. That friend whom is going to remain nameless was Shannon's best friend at the time when she worked at a local Food Lion. She also became my friend, and was a inspirational single mom who was working two jobs just to pay child support. One of those jobs was working at a wholesale car dealer, and it was with her kindness and help we secured our last car when we were down on our luck.

The official story goes something like this. "D" (as we shall call her) was all happy and living life. One day she doesn't show up at work, eventually her boss decides to drive by her house and while her car is parked there, they get no answer. So they call the cops and find her dead. The death is attributed to her not taking her medication, case closed, we all go to the funeral and "D" becomes nothing more than a fond cherished memory carried in our minds.

But this never sat well with me. For one, there's a whole lot more to the story. The cops, which I'm suspecting would have been Guilford County Sheriff's since she lived in Climax, to my knowledge never investigated the case, never came to the store and talked to people, and for the most part the whole thing was hushed and covered up. Part of this I believe is because "D" was using drugs, and no one wanted "D" to go down in history as the girl who died from doing drugs.

So where does the murder come from? Well along comes a spider, (to borrow from V graciously) lets call her "M". About a month or so prior to "D"'s death, "D" stopped talking to us and her usual group of friends and began hanging out with "M". "D" had spoken a few times about depression, etc... and she confided in Shannon her drug use. So it wasn't really any surprise that "M" & "D" began hanging out together. "M" was an avid self-confessed, almost blatant in your face drug user whom was widely renowned as girlfriend of the local Drug Czar. While in my mind it makes perfect sense to connect the two, the only people whom possibly might have been interviewed by the cops to make the connection was "M","D", & Shannon's superior at the time whom was rumored to be romantically involved with "M" and also a customer of "M"'s boyfriend.

Confused? Now I know there's nothing I know of other than speculation that can connect them. Even if by some chance it could be proved "M" was with "D" the night of her death, and it was due to drugs I must honestly admit it's a stretching of the term to call it Murder, and certainly "D" has some responsibility in the whole thing. But it kills me that a friend would possibly leave her friend to die, and then cover it up. It also bothers me when a internal anonymous tip was provided to Food Lion concerning "M"'s drug use, nothing was done about. What really infuriates me is a few days ago "M" was bragging to another employee and friend of ours how she does drugs all the time, and boasted once again how the last 9 months she's done drugs and stated "I know lots of people who do drugs and their babies come out just fine." "M" is due any day. She smokes & does drugs.... and quite frankly I'm wondering if another needless life is going to die because of her stupidity.
 
 
Call your local Family and Youth Services and report her drug use and pregnancy....if nothing else, the baby will be taken away and put in better care that her drugged out mother.
January 5th, 2009, 12:24 pm
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I'm not sure they can do much without a positive test, or proof of drug possession. Cops would need a subpoena to search. Supposedly the child has a nice room in a junk yard (this is not a joke) which will serve it's home for the next few years....
January 5th, 2009, 1:43 pm
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Liv
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Location: Greensboro, NC
Call in the report. Let the authorities decide what to do with the information. If they find the report credible, they will get a subpoena.
January 5th, 2009, 1:46 pm
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SouthernFriedInfidel
 
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That's just it, there is no proof.... unless by some chance here in a few days when the baby comes at the Women's hospital they, for some reason do a blood test of some sort.

I fully assume based on what I know, the child will eventually be removed from the home anyways.
January 5th, 2009, 2:20 pm
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Liv
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Not that it matters, but please define "drugs".
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January 5th, 2009, 3:05 pm
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Sanjuro
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Coke, weed, Acid, Uppers....

That said....

I'm pretty liberal on weed... you know that. If it was just that, it wouldn't be a big deal, but it isn't.

I'm pretty darn pissed that this baby is going to be born even addicted to cigarette.... I mean, she could have quit for atleast 9 months.... but now the baby has to deal with being born and going through withdrawals because the mom couldn't do it... Not to mention the cocaine, and marijuana... and the effects of alcohol, caffeine, etc.

If you can't give it up for 9 months, you don't deserve to be a mother.
January 5th, 2009, 3:25 pm
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Liv
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Liv wrote:Coke, weed, Acid, Uppers....

That said....

I'm pretty liberal on weed... you know that. If it was just that, it wouldn't be a big deal, but it isn't.

I'm pretty darn pissed that this baby is going to be born even addicted to cigarette.... I mean, she could have quit for atleast 9 months.... but now the baby has to deal with being born and going through withdrawals because the mom couldn't do it... Not to mention the cocaine, and marijuana... and the effects of alcohol, caffeine, etc.

If you can't give it up for 9 months, you don't deserve to be a mother.


Ugh, that kid is going to be messed up. Seriously. Even if not born with addiction the mental development alone might be an issue for the rest of its life. So sad.
January 5th, 2009, 5:02 pm
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Sanjuro
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That's whats so sad to me. Honestly I couldn't care, and if I wasn't in the "real" world job sector, I'd be the first to smoke a joint with someone.... but we didn't even have caffeine or fast food around when our kids were born, I cannot imagine putting a kid through a cigarette addiction withdrawal, let-alone a cocaine addition the first few days of it's life... I know how hard it was for me to quit smoking.... I can't imagine this...

Honestly, I keep (as does Shan) my mouth shut, especially when it's not my business... but when she approach a friend of ours this last week and offered to smoke dope with her... and she left on disability for pregnancy as of the first... It really bugged me...

I'm going to be royally pissed if she has the baby on my birthday....
January 5th, 2009, 5:21 pm
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Liv
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Location: Greensboro, NC
Cigarettes: fetal death, spontaneous abortion, decreased fetal growth, premature birth, placental abruption, and sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS). Nicotine withdrawal

Alcohol: Fetal alcohol spectrum disorder, physical, mental, behavioural and/or learning disabilities.
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Cocaine: Fetal death, placental abruption, premature birth, fetal/infant stroke. Cocaine withdrawal

It's probably too late for the kid already.
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January 5th, 2009, 5:24 pm
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Well the baby was born a day or so ago.... Apparently under weight... Miserable labor... I'm sure the child is living in hell right now.
January 13th, 2009, 11:13 am
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Liv
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Liv wrote:Well the baby was born a day or so ago.... Apparently under weight... Miserable labor... I'm sure the child is living in hell right now.


Withdrawal symptoms will go away; however any disorders and disabilities due to prenatal substance abuse will be the real trouble for this child. How sad.
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January 13th, 2009, 11:20 am
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Serendipitous
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A guy kills a man, hides the body. When the family offers a reward for information to help find the missing man, the killer turns himself in and demands the reward before helping located the body.

Just -- DAY-um! :evil:
August 6th, 2009, 11:41 am
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SouthernFriedInfidel
 
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They agreed to put the money in a trust fund for a child Hammer had been helping raise before he went to prison.


I suspect legislation to come out of this one.
August 6th, 2009, 5:14 pm
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Liv
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Location: Greensboro, NC

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