BecauseHeLives wrote:Liv brings up an interesting question. If homosexual couples feel they were "made" the way they ARE yet they feel the need to reproduce then wouldn't that indicate to them that they are "broken" and that homosexuality is NOT normal? If this is the case why wouldn't you want to be "fixed" if you could (as Liv indicates she would not want to be)?
Why do people have sex using contraception? Does that mean we are 'broken'?
Very little about our lifestyle is 'normal' - we didn't evolve with the drives to survive in the modern world. Just as a porcupine's defense is effective against a cougar (cat) but useless against a Cougar (car)
We are 'made' with a sex drive and a desire to parent. Without it a species (or the genes that we're made from) wouldn't survive in a primitive society. We have all sorts of evolution (genetic) derived drivers or instincts: Eating sugars, fats and high protein diets had good reproductive and survival results in a subsistence feast/famine environment. In out modern sedentary lifestyles it's dangerous and we have the intelligence to realize that, so we suppress or subvert our instincts and diet or eat foods that are lower in fats and sugars. We forgo the ice cream in favour of an apple.
Many of us also have the intelligence to realize that as we have greatly reduced the natural dangers that used to kill our children in infancy, so that virtually all reach adulthood (a most unnatural situation) having more children is bad for the mothers, bad for society and bad for the environment. So we cheat our instincts by using contraception - satiating the libido without the consequences.
In other words, in the gene centric world, humans are just vehicles for the genes survival. Evolution has given us large brains so that we can overide the genetic imperatives in order to meet our goals.
The God of our genes intended us to die in our 40's after having gone forth and multiplied as much as we could and watched three quarters of our children die in infancy.