Liv wrote:I'll be honest.... I told Shan not to even think about pulling my plug if I'm like Shaivo.... unless I'm putting a huge financial strain on the family....
I want every chance to live... and frankly, while this may be a scam, there are way too many doctors willing to pull the plug to clear a bed.
That is your right to choose. However, unless Obama's Health Care plan passes--WITH the public option, it is pretty much guaranteed that being in a prolonged coma would bankrupt your family. Basically, Shan would have to divorce you, giving up half of any property you two have in common, and you would have to be put on Medicaid. They would put you in some ratty nursing home where your life would be hell on earth. Fortunately, you would be unaware of the bedsores you developed, the infections, the urnary catheter causing repeated urinary tract infections, for which they would give you antibiotics. The antibiotics would of course, cause you to have diarrhea, which would cause really awful sores around your anus (just like a bad case of diarrhea does now, only 100 times worse because the nurse-aides would clean you up only once or twice a shift. If that.
Hopefully, you would be so comatose you wouldn't even know about this. But if you have any awareness, which you would have if your coma wasn't deep, you would live in constant and severe pain. And of course, you wouldn't be able to tell anybody, so nobody would give you pain medication. All this and with no hope of ever getting out except by dying. Terri Schaivo had money from a malpractice suit, so her husband kept her in an excellent extended care facility. She didn't suffer all that because he had the $10,000 a month to pay for the best of care. Unless your situation is caused by somebody with deep pockets Shannon can successfully sue for the money to pay for your care, your care would quickly bankrupt your family.
Sound like a life you would want extended as long as possible?